Shattered Dreams Appeal

Awareness & Support through Terminal Illness or Loss

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Terminal Illness and Bereavement

~ Terminal Illness and  Bereavement Diary

~ Grieving

~ Drop-in Centre

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~ Terminal Illness and Bereavement Book list

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Social, Emotional and Behavioural Conditions

Physical Illness

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The Shattered Dreams Appeal Funds projects aimed at Re-Building Lives affected by Terminal Illness or Loss of Life...

Bereavement is one of the most difficult events in life which leads to a powerful trail of emotions involving everyone in the family; not just the immediate parents or children, but families, friends and even relative strangers. What does one say?

 

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Projects

 

Projects that fall under the umbrella of Terminal Illness and Loss include:

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

How should you tell a child that their brother, sister or parent may only be with them for a short time or that something fatal has happened?

 

We are all individuals and so Understanding Differences cannot provide any answers to these questions because there is no correct answer, what we can offer is a way to see how others have coped with their experiences of terminal illness, expected or sudden loss.

 

Many could say that loosing an elderly person is one of the easier kinds of bereavement but, initially every loss is difficult to come to terms with.

 

There is no right or wrong text to cover all types of loss, for all people, all situations... but it can be summarised that loss as a result of diagnosed condition or genuine accident is different from losing one to suicide, with an accident there may be less to cause a deep feeling of guilt, losing one to suicide could cause immense guilt and questions for people left behind.

We hope to develop something for everyone however the main focus of our projects at present are based on supporting children through grief or parents who have lost a child...

Child loss, on the other hand, whether through short or long term illness, accident or suicide is a category of its own at no matter what age this occurs as the affects of  outliving our children are immensely deep rooted and life-changing.

 

The books, publications, forum and outside links allow people to access a wide variety of resources which we hope will provide a wide range of experiences for people to draw from in order to maintain some rationalisation within anyone’s thoughts.

We also hope to help family and friends to understand the grieving process things that could support others and of the things that maybe do not help!

 

It is therefore hoped that the resources provided by Understanding Differences will in some small way help to bridge the gap that can sometimes form between people, friends and families whenever the subject of terminal illness or loss is raised.

 

 

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